#003 | Become The Partner You Want with Persia Lawson
In this episode:
In this episode, Alex Croxford interviews Persia Lawson, a top UK dating and relationship coach, to explore the journey of inner healing, and personal transformation in pursuit of meaningful romantic relationships. They dive into Persia’s personal evolution from her own tumultuous love life to coaching high-achieving women to find fulfilling relationships by working on themselves first.
Highlights:
✨Persia shares her personal story of overcoming chaotic relationships and magnetising her husband of 8 years
✨The secret she used to shift her external world and change her romantic life
✨We discuss how perfectionism impacts romantic relationships.
✨The importance of self-responsibility, self-respect and boundaries in dating.
✨Persia introduces the "Four Missing Pieces of the Courtship Puzzle"
✨We talk about the importance of becoming the partner you want to attract by cultivating a deep relationship with yourself.
Key Takeaways:
- Self-awareness is the key to lasting love: You cannot expect someone to love you if you do not deeply love and respect yourself. The most important piece of the puzzle is working on your relationship with yourself first.
- The Four Missing Pieces of the Courtship Puzzle: Magnetic energy, discernment, communication, and surrender are crucial to forming healthy, lasting relationships.
- Prioritise self-respect: True confidence comes from respecting yourself, your sacred body and not playing games.
- True power couples are about more than optics: Real power couples focus on collaboration, communication, and service, creating positive ripples not just in their lives but in the world around them.
- Let go of control in relationships: The importance of surrendering the need to control outcomes in relationships and trusting the process.
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https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-deeper-love-podcast/id1770453444
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https://open.spotify.com/show/0ZHJGVpMHJgny8uoMKgjNP
About Alex Croxford:
Hi, I'm Alex
I am a sex, love & relationship coach and I’m committed to guiding you towards attracting a love beyond the ordinary.
My own love life completely changed when my perfect-looking marriage started to crumble. I felt so much shame. guilt, and fear about the future, I was completely floored and didn't know where to turn.
I had made some BIG mistakes and I never wanted to make them again. I was 38, and I knew I wanted to be in a relationship again one day, so I invested heavily into coaching, therapy, couples therapy, plant medicine, spiritual work, energy healing, and somatic work (amongst many other things!).
This inner healing journey changed my life – first I saw there was nothing to "fix" and more importantly that my unhealed wounds from the past that made me believe I wasn't good enough were impacting how I showed up in ALL of my relationships and they were playing out over and over again. It didn't matter who my partner was, it was the same sh*t different day.
I discovered that for me to create a different reality on the outside i.e. to attract a different kind of love, one where I felt safe, seen and understood, I felt alive, lit up, connected to my sexuality and my body, I had to address the beliefs and stories I carried about myself on the inside.
By taking RADICAL self-responsibility, addressing my self-destructive behaviours and unhealthy relationship patterns my life completely changed. Off the back of my own transformation, I quit a 20 year career in TV to share my deeply embodied teachings with the world, I moved cities and I met my now partner (and soulmate) Adam.
I’m trained in BodyMind maturation coaching, somatic work, sex, love & relationship coaching, holistic health, root cause healing, energy healing, and Chinese medicine,
And my vision is to take women on the same journey of awakening, so they too can experience a love beyond the ordinary
About The Deeper Love Podcast:
Step into a realm of life-changing intimacy with The Deeper Love Podcast, where healing, love, and the universe meet. Join host Alex Croxford as she guides you through the secrets of experiencing deep and healthy relationships with experts in love, sexuality, personal development, and spirituality. Uncover how to use relationships as pathways to growth and expansion and learn the art of co-creating the passionate, magical, and mystical relationship your heart desires. Let each conversation awaken your senses and deepen your connections, inviting you into a love beyond the ordinary.
Alex's Links:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamalexcroxford/
How to Find The Love Of Your Life Masterclass: https://www.alexcroxford.com/how-to-find-the-love-of-your-life-masterclass/
Website: https://www.alexcroxford.com/
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About Persia:
Persia Lawson is a dating & relationship coach, 3x author & speaker. She specialises in getting female leaders healthy, exciting, meaningful relationships that are a force for good, not drama.
Persia was honoured to be called “one of the UK’s most successful love coaches” by The Times and an “irreverent British guru” by Marie Claire magazine. Her work is regularly featured in Vogue, Cosmopolitan and the BBC.
Her flagship mentorship programme, Love For Leaders, typically gets clients remarkable relationships within 6-12 months.
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/PersiaLawsonLoveCoach/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/persialawson/
Linkedin: https://uk.linkedin.com/in/persia-lawson-02aa92211
Love For Leaders Scorecard (which shows you how far away you are from your ideal relationship): https://persia-lawson.scoreapp.com/ & Love Is Coming Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/love-is-coming/id1533608902
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